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 People say having children is the most meaningful thing they have done and their children give meaning to their lives. To a certain extent this is noble, but when taken too far I think it is outright immoral.

Some people want to live their lives through their children. It's almost like the child is an offshoot of themselves, and they want the child to 'achieve' and do well so that they feel vindicated and successful as parents. That is immoral.

In fact, having ANY kind of expectations from your child, and attaching your own self worth to your child is outright violating the rights of the child. It puts a lot of pressure on the child and it is detrimental to the child. It is, infact, immoral.

Let children become their own persons without coercion. Of course help them do that - by talking to them without coercion using logic and arguments - but let them be. There is always a way to do this. 


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